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My speedometer said that I hit top end. My foot was glued like lead to the floor. Thats all that there is there aint no more.

13 Jan

There is an old saying.  ‘Drive it like you stole it’.  I say ‘Drive it like you rented it’.

Some people say that American cars handle the best, others say foreign cars handle the best.  I say NOTHING handles like a rented car.

When I was a kid, I thought my Dad drove fast.  Diane was eccentric.  Opera Singer.  Iconoclast. Hotel soap thief.  and boy could she drive a car.

I am a natural behind the wheel, I have driven thousands of laps at racetracks spanning more than 30 years.  More days at high speed behind the wheel that I could even consider counting.  From the German Autobahn, to the Italian Autostrada, to US 50 (the loneliest road in America), to the Bonneville salt flats in Utah, I am comfortable driving for hours at triple digit speeds.  I am comfortable fording flowing streams where the water is over the tires.  I’ve taken courses at renouned racing schools at famous tracks around the country, and anti-terrorist courses at the BMW driving school facility in Spartensberg North Carolina (where the chief instructor, an Appalachian son of a bootlegger took a special interest in my driving skills).  Can you google ‘J turn’?

If Diane had lived long enough, and she drove  Laguna Seca Raceway (which I consider my “Home” track), I have no doubt she’d leave me in the dust on her first lap.  She was an excellent sightreader.  really!  the woman had huge balls and incredible driving skills.  She scared the shit out of me and my dad regularly.

Paul is a lawyer and is joining a family that is artistic and cultured and (for the most part) law-abiding.  There is a deep dark secret that comes from the Sanders side of the family which is generally frowned upon in elite, intelligent circles and anywhere in NYC.  It’s also my favorite topic!


Grampa Sam Sanders, who was born in 1898, apparently loved cars.  My grandma Anna told how when they were courting he drove a very fancy convertible roadster (hey I have a Miata!).  I also remember he had an Impala, and a Corvair Monza.  It didn’t occur to me when I was a kid, that those were performance cars of the era.  He also pointed out to me the specific model of car he had, but never made performance claims.  Sam was known for backing up on the parkways, expressways and bridges (especially toll bridges).  If he passed an exit, he would stop, put the car in reverse and back up.  Not Safe.  J-turns are much safer.

My other grandfather, Sam Scolnick also enjoyed long driving trips.  I once drove him and Grandma Ethel up the Jersey Turnpike from Piscataway to NYC in moms Volvo.  The speed limit in those days was a widely disregarded federal speed limit of 55mph.  I drove that route every day to and from work in Edison.  You could go 74mph and the police would ignore you, 75 and over – they’d arrest you.  I was going 74mph and grandpa asked me Mellowly:  “Tell me Daniel, what speed does the law allow?”.  Without hesitation I answered “74 mph grandpa”.  He settled down until we passed the next speed limit sign, then said: “The speed limit sign says 55mph, but you said the law allows 74”.  I explained that what the ‘law allows’ and what the ‘speed limit is’ are two different things.

Mom and Dad always bought cars that had a little “extra” under the hood.  My parents told me stories of a 40’s something Plymouth named the “green pig”.  Dad told me of driving it across the country (with infant Laura) and how driving through the desert at 95 mph felt like 25 mph anywhere else, fond, nostalgic whimsy in his voice.  That childhood image prompted me to take driving vacations across the American west regularly.  My earliest memory of an actual car was moms ’56 Chevy Bel Air with a “3 on the tree”.


1956 Chevy Bel Air.  Notice the “jet age” hood and fender ornaments!


Not fast, but dads car at the time was a ’57 Imperial with a 392 Hemi and dual quads which he bought second hand from one of his best friends, Al Solomon’s father, Mr. Haganow.  Unreliable as hell, big, gaudy, and when mom drove it, it felt like someone hit the rear bumper with a huge sledgehammer when the secondaries kicked in.  then they bought a 65 Pontiac Catalina with a 389 4 barrel, replaced shortly with a ’69 Bonneville 428 4 barrel and duel exhaust (mom said it helped the gas mileage, nothing like lying to your children).  The last car of dad’s was a ’72 Chrysler New Yorker Brougham with a 440 magnum.

1957 Chrysler Imperial. Dad’s was “Florida Blue”


One of the sexiest cars ever made.  Designed by Virgil Exner.



Arthur almost lost his license getting caught for ‘several’ minor traffic infractions.  Diane only got caught once, going 78mph in a 55mph zone westbound on the Northern State Parkway just over the Nassau County line through the twisty turns, shortly after I had tuned up the car.  She claimed she was singing along to “ride of the Valkyries” on WQXR radio and wasn’t paying attention to her speed.  I figure she slowed down for the turns, and it gave the police the opportunity to catch up.  Anyways that was about the slowest she ever drove.  I remember her driving flat out in both the Bonneville and New Yorker going to Boston to visit Laura at the New England Conservatory.  One time mom came into the toll booths a little too hot, locked up all four wheels to stop in time (for which dad yelled at her: “Was that really necessary?!”).  A dramatic entrance filled with the sound of screeching, fury and tire smoke.

I have spent some time in my adult life trying to match some of the point A to point B times she set in these old cars (on bias ply tires).  Her last car was a 81 Volvo DL (you could speed past a cop at 110mph in that car and they wouldn’t even look at it).  As with all our cars, I did a little hotrodding to the Volvo.  Mom, Laura and Ray were driving to Augusta Georgia to see an old friend, Bill Tool.  The legend goes, that Ray started driving the trip from New York, it was raining.  My mom made him pull over, mumbling about how they’d never get there at that speed, took the wheel, and made it to Augusta Georgia in 12 hours…. in the rain.


When I took Diane shopping for that Volvo we looked at various cars.  In a scene reminiscent of “Harold and Maude” I took her to junkyards to look at wrecked Volvo’s.   The Volvo was much smaller than any of the previous American iron so there was a concern about safety.  Ultimately Diane said the Volvo “called her name” and she bought a white one.  It was the best car we ever owned and ended up outlasting her.  It went 14 years and 347,000 miles (most of those miles flat out).  I sold it for 10 percent of its original purchase price to a man who then proceeded to get himself and the Volvo run over by a cement mixing truck.  He survived unscathed.  Diane made a sensible choice.

The Volvo had a ‘federal’ speedometer that only went to 85mph.  A few weeks after their return from Georgia, mom asked me in an offhanded, disinterested way if the car is limited to 85 because the speedometer never goes past the peg.  I informed her cheekily, “yes mom, the car goes much faster than 85.  You can tell the speed by doubling the number on the tachometer that I installed”.  She said: “I thought so, because when I take my foot off the gas it takes 30 or 40 seconds for the speedometer to fall below 85 and start registering speed again”.

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1972 Chrysler New Yorker “Brougham”


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Lady drives a Chrysler – it could top 130mph

Many years after her death I managed to beat her time from NYC to Boston.  I drove a ’93 Mazda RX-7 R1 twin turbo factory race car.  I beat her time by 1 minute.  She had done it in 3 hours flat in the ’72 New Yorker, I did it in 2:59 in a 1993 race car.


’93 Mazda RX-7 R1, Twin Sequential Turbo Rotary



I bought cars, fixed them up and sold them for a profit during my high school days.  I worked my way to up to a 1970 Challenger R/T 440 Sixpack.  This car had a much stronger engine than the New Yorker in a smaller car that weighed 1,000 pounds lighter.  I threw the keys to mom one night and we went for a ride.  After a while I asked her to pull over so I could show her what the car could do.  Indignantly, she said “I am perfectly capable of seeing what this car can do” and floored the gas.  The Challenger had power steering, power brakes and power power.  We found ourselves going near triple digit speeds on Wolf Hill Road westbound in about 5 seconds when I screamed at her to slow down!  I think she didn’t expect anything like that, and while she didn’t admit it, I think she scared herself.


1970 Dodge Challenger R/T 440 Sixpack



Everyone in the family wanted me to drive long trips, but no one wanted to sit in the front seat.  in fact they all fought over who would sit in the back seat.  You could make great time in that Volvo (reference the title to this page).  I made it from Germantown Philadelphia to my apartment on the corner of Bleeker and Thompson street in the village, in the rain, with my sister, mother and grandmother asleep in the car in 59 minutes one summer night (it’s 89 miles).  My moms time from NYC to Augusta – that’s safe: it isn’t going to fall in my lifetime.

A representative example of Diane’s driving can be found in the reference section below.  As the clip says: ‘You can drive a Volvo like you hate it; cheaper than psychiatry.’

It is this legacy that Paul is to be blindsided with.  Just like there are mandatory things, like education, empathy, a splash of culture (some attributes skip a generation) knowing how to DRIVE is required in this family.  The skillset is really a matter of safety.  That’s why both Izzy and Amity have taken high performance driving courses, can drive manual transmission cars (even though Amity denies having the ability, don’t believe it! – she can do it), and Izzy was driving on the track when she was 14 – before she was legally allowed to drive on the street.  She was lapping at Thunderhill Raceway and Laguna Seca Speedway in my ‘spec’ Miata, AAHHRRR, before she was 20 years old.

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Izzy in AAHHRRR at Laguna Seca Raceway


The Big Island doesn’t have many places to drive fast, but it does have places that require a 4wd vehicle.  4wd is NOT Awd.  Only specialized vehicles like Jeeps have 4wd and they have their own quirks and characteristics that need to be learned and then exploited.  Since we can’t all fit in one  jeep and we will require the 4WD, for this final part of the trip we have rented two Jeeps.


I had expected Izzy to be one of the drivers, but she’s 1 year too young to rent a car.  So the driving responsibility for the second jeep falls on Paul.  This should be interesting.  One of my (driving) mentors, Aaron, says you can tell a lot about a person by the way they drive.  “M”/butterblogger made a comment a few months ago “don’t let someone take you to the airport that has never gotten a speeding ticket”.  I think in the backdrop of this context Paul knows the pressure is ON!

Paul wants specific addresses and driving instructions.  Kona has no streetlamps, no ambient light, no reflectors on the street and, unbeknownst to him, it’s a black volcanic lava desert for as far as the eye can see, which sucks up any stray ambient light.  My seemingly non-specific directions “just go 18 miles and make a left at the first traffic light you come to which is Waikolowa Village” does n0t instill confidence or make him comfortable.  My backup plan: “just follow me” seems to make things worse.  I find out later – he is cheating – he’s using GPS electronics in his smartphone to navigate.  I’ve been just dead reckoning.

the other thing I find out, is that for the rest of the trip there will be a “kids car” “KC” and a “old fart” “OF” car.  You know which one i’m driving.

I also explain to Paul that if I have to change lanes, I will signal, slow down to make traffic slow down, then speed up to give him room to get behind me.  He looks worried and says: “i’m not going to race”.  I explain this isn’t racing it’s cooperatively driving with each other and I do it all the time with my friends.  He gives me a skeptical look.  I do it once, he picks it up like a champ and we use the tactic (and others that didn’t require explanation after the theory was put into practice) for the rest of the trip (and probably will for the rest of our lives).  I’m initially pleased, the man has excellent situational awareness and driving aptitude.  His lead foot doesn’t hurt either.  This is a good thing.  A very good thing.

Today is THE day that has the most promise and the most risk to fail miserably.  We have chartered a boat with a local captain I know, Captain Ron.  We’re going to split the day.  The morning is for swimming with Dolphins and whale watching.  The afternoon is off, then the evening is night time snorkeling with Manta Rays.

Laura has a deep dark secret too.  She’s an addict.  a coffee addict.  I never acquired the taste, but I do enjoy an occasional cappuccino.  In Italy I have cappuccino every day.  I am a foodie, though, and appreciate fine food, while eschewing fine dining.  That’s one of the reasons Hawaii fits me so well.  The raw products of the islands is incredible.  every day has 12 hours of sun and 12 hours of night, and the geography is such that the produce (and the animals that eat it) get tropical sun and rain every day.  Everything grows in rich volcanic soil.  Ideal conditions to farm and ranch.  Formal Dining in Hawaii means the forks and knives are metal instead of plastic, and you wear a t-shirt without holes.  For special occasions, like weddings, the groom might wear Hawaiian shirt completely buttoned to his sternum (but not tucked in, ever!).  Flip Flops are always appropriate.  This dress code is heaven for Dan.

The first time I had Kona coffee (in a cappuccino), I knew it was something spectacular.  I called Laura from the Cafe and told her that some day she had to try this.

That day has finally come.

We’re up early.  The kids car found a coffee shop near the marina, so we go.  It’s a little difficult to find as it’s hidden behind a car wash.  It’s typical in Hawaii to have “pop-up” gourmet food places.  You find them IN gas stations, regular grocery stores and sometimes in school buses parked on the side of the road overgrown with years of lush weeds.  We circle twice to find this place.   They have these funny doughnuts with holes in the middle, they call them bagels (but they really aren’t).  and Kona Coffee, which they prepare expertly AND describe how they are preparing it whilst doing it.  Kona coffee is rich, and robust and strong (blah blah blah) but it has a very light, silky quality to the mouth.  When you’ve had Kona coffee the oils stay in your tongue for hours afterwards giving a sated, peaceful feeling.

This is not the place I intended to take Laura for Kona Coffee, but it was top notch and right next to the marina.  Perfect choice.

Next we go to the Honokohau Small Boat Harbor which I refer to as “Giligans Island Marina”.  I only call it that because it is.  We meet Captain Ron and Shannon, get our safety briefing and:

off we go……….

to be continued………..


Wet Before and Wet Behind

Dan’s “Spare Parts” catamaran – Sailing to Fire island Talisman Park, NY……





Title: “Hot Rod Lincoln” by Commander Cody



‘Lady Drives a Chrysler’ – ‘Young American – David Bowie.


J turn.


‘You can drive a Volvo like you hate it,  cheaper than psychiatry.’

A pimp’s got a Cadi and a lady got a Chrysler.

12 Jan

This is our last day in kaua’i.  We’ll be leaving tonight for Kona and a few days in the “Disney” part of the big island of Hawai’i.  We are roused before sunrise by the family of feral foul.

We cook breakfast and I find out that the left knee that i’m having trouble with, and Laura is having trouble with, Izzy is also feeling from time to time.  Grandma Ethel Scolnick has joined us – and not for the last time.  Laura, Izzy and I all have Ethel-knee.  Turns out that Izzy also has flat feet, just like me – that’s from Arthur.  so we have Arthurs feet.  It turns out Izzy also has my bad sinuses, which we’ve tracked to Grandpa Sam Sanders – I remember he had a cornucopia of nettie pots.  He and grandma Anna could snore the roof off the house when they slept.  It was a frightening spectacle.

It’s interesting how the brain works.  I’ve driven past the Limihumi Garden and Preserve  several times, but was not really aware it was there.  In the past I even tried to go to it, but it was closed.  I had neither a visual memory in reality, nor a place on the map I keep in my mind.  On our last trip past Hanalei, Paul pointed to a sign and said: “There it is!”.

We check out of the condo’s and our first stop is the Limahuli Garden and Preserve.  The parking is tight, and the lines between the parking spaces are some kind of straps laid down on the gravel.  I hear Amity say: “I couldn’t live here, I need more structure in my life.”

This was not like other botanical gardens I’ve been to.  there were many rare and endangered plants, but only one of each.  It’s purpose is to be a preserve for the indigenous and fragile plants.  It’s here that we learned that Palm trees are an invasive species to Hawaii.  In fact most of the plants and animals thriving in Hawaii are invasive.  I also learned that Ray is extremely knowledgeable, as are his daughters, about botany.  There’s something that definitely doesn’t come from the Scolnick side of the family, We kill Cactus.  It was quite a revelation to hear Ray and his girls discussing in depth the botany of each plant.


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Stunning and limited indigenous plants



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Amity and Paul on the hike



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Laura rests under an indigenous tree preserved here.



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Izzy finds a treasure trove of apple banana’s


Next Stop is a moderate hike in Princeville to the Queens Bath.


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The Hike

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The Queens Bath, she must have been immortal

This place can easily kill you.

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A sea turtle sticks his head up for a breath


Then we stop at the Kilauea Lighthouse and Marine Mammal Wildlife Refuge.

kiluea lighthouse

We look for whales and see none.  There are a ton of dolphins sleeping on the surface in the broiling sun.

Then we stop at Hee Fat in Kapa’a for the best rated shave ice (that’s not a typo, it’s what they call it) on Kauai.

Drop off the car at the airport and fly.  20 minutes later we land in Kona at night.  Kona looks like the surface of the moon, but only I know this from previous vists as no one can see it in the darkness.  We rent the two jeeps and drive up to Waikoloa Village on the one road  “Big Island” has.

We have dinner a Roys and go to our rooms at the Marriot Waikoloa Hotel (the nicest hotel I’ve stayed at in the region) for a good nights sleep.  Tomorrow morning is an early call and it promises to be the best day of the trip so far……..




Title: “Young American” – David Bowie

Featured Photo – 1956 Chrysler Imperial

..One damn song that can make me break down and cry.

11 Jan

I heard the news today, oh boy.  David Bowie died of liver cancer at 69.  69?!  How could Ziggy Stardust be 69?!  How could David Bowie be dead?  “Young American” starts playing in my head and lyrics of the song brings back memories from decades ago, that felt like yesterday.  Bowie had a huge impact on my life, and I didn’t even know it.  A humble, courageous,  iconoclast of a man who I never knew, and who never knew me, profoundly touched my life.  Along with my dead relatives and friends, old friends I had never made now join us on this trip.

I am reminded of an interview with Gloria steinem I heard on NPR some months ago.  She once said that a woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.  Gloria Steinem is 81 — a fact that the iconic women’s movement leader describes as “quite bizarre.”

“Eighty-one is an age that I think is someone else’s age,”

Each Hawaiian Island has one essential Road that goes around it.  It’s usually named ‘Kamehameha ‘.  On Kaua’i it’s one lane in each direction.  Often the speed limit is only 25 or 35mph, and that feels FAST.  Yesterday we went to the north end, today we will go to the beach at the south end and see the other side of the Napli Coast.

Today, we have left our East coast beach going sensibilities behind, there is no picnic packed, no swimming accoutrements, no preconceived notion of what a day at the beach means.  We begin our mission.

We will drive to the other end of the road and see the Queens Pond and back side of the Nepali coast.  Then we will go to Waimea Canyon – The ‘Grand Canyon’ of the Pacific.  Frankly, I don’t think the Grand Canyon has anything on Waimea Canyon.

We start off the day and I hear Izzy say from the back “I never knew there were so many shades of green.”  A profound statement.  One that will stay with me forever.

First stop; Opaekaa Falls

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Opaekaa Falls


Then on the the Queens Pond.  Each Hawaiian island has 10 of the worlds 15 climate zones.  You can go through those climate zones on Kaua’i in a bout an hour.  As the hilly rain forests of Hanalei Bay and and Princeville start to flatten out we enter the desert zone.  We drive past a military airfield.

We arrive at the entrance to Polihale State Beach Park.  I announce to the car that it’s time for the first lesson in 4WD, which is you put it into 4wd BEFORE you need it.  We go down the 4 mile unpaved, washboard surface road bouncing and shaking, Napali mountains imposing their presence to our right side.  Finally I get to the sand of the beach pull up a hill and stop.  We’re here.

We get out of the SUV and walk down to the beach.  There is a heavily armed military sentry patrolling the dunes in this rugged isolated place.  A single Armed military man in the vast emptiness of a civilian beach.  I guess he’s keeping watch on the perimeter of the Air Force base to our south.  I say:”Hi”, he nods.

We walk down to the Queens Pond.


Queens Pond, Polihale State Beach Park


Polihale Beach is one of the longest continuous sand beaches in all of Hawaii, stretching 15 miles along kauai’s west shore.  The beach is also one of the widest in Hawai’i, average in g 300 feet.  It is backed by sand dunes, some of which are 100 feet high.  One can walk for almost three hours and still not reach the Napali mountains in the background.  The sand is fine and white and you sink in so far that every step is quite difficult.

Because of its remoteness and because of the eerie quality of its beauty, the name, Polihale means “The Home of the Underworld”.  It is rumored that this is where souls of the dead depart for the underworld.  The Surf is HUGE, the wind is whipping and it’s quite uncomfortable.  But it is AWESOME.  We decide we’re hungry so we retrace our steps back to the SUV.  Amity looks up Yelp reviews of nearby places and finds Bobbi’s in a small town called Hanapepe along our route.


Bobbi’s is a local joint.  We go in and there are a few local road workers getting lunch.  They inform us we have found THE BEST food in all of Kaua’i.  Immediately the girls ask the lady at the counter where the bathroom is.  She leans forward like she’s going to tell us a secret.  She speaks in pidgin: ‘There is a public bathroom over there’ and she points, leans back and smiles.  Then in a knowing louder voice say says: “But It’s NAAAAAAASSSSSSTY, don’t go there”.  Instead she sends us over to another store that has a NICE bathroom.

We have some local food for lunch which was delicious and which holds us till the next day (Butterblogger has a tale of local prepared food).  I notice there are no feral chickens anywhere in town to be seen.   Hmmmmmmm

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Lunch at Bobbi’s



What there are; Geko’s Galore!

Izzy makes fast friends with the locals.



ray and gecko

Everybody gets into the act!



a quick visit to the westmost bookstore in the USA

The western most bookstore in the USA (and maybe the last independant bookstore)

Up the hill, 17 miles on twisty, turning 25mph road to the top of Waimea Canyon to see another view of the Napali coast.


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Is Izzy Photoshopped?



Photographs can’t possibly capture how this feels.

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Sitting on top of the world

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Waimea Canyon








Mission:Gecko – Check!

Mission:Queens Pond – Check!

Mission:Napali Coast – check!

Mission:Waimea Canyon – Check!

Mission:waterfalls – Check!

We head back down the mountain and get back onto the desert road on the way back to the rainforest and Princeville.  Everyone is asleep.  We pass Hundreds, no make that thousands of coffee bean bushes.  There’s a sign, ‘Kauai Coffee Growers’, seems like a good idea, I take a right turn that would do mom proud and speed down the road to the coffee growers shop.  We arrive 15 minutes before closing, but they had about 25 different types of coffee there to sample (FREE!).  I had a cappuccino.  We watched the films.  What do you know, I was wrong, they have over 4 million coffee bean bushes that they harvest all year round.

Mission:Coffee growers tour – Check! (new)

Recharged with caffeine racing through our veins we proceed to catch the sunset in Poi Pu for the spouting horn.  Spouting Horn, as it turns out, is multiple spouting horns when the waves are sufficiently large.  They were.


Spouting Horn



Multiple Spouts


Mission:Spouting Horn – Check!

oh look!  a sea turtle sticks his head out of the water at spouting horn!  can you see his head?

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Sea Turtle at Poi Pu’s spouting horn


Mission:Sea Turtle – Check!


Sunset Time at Poi Pu

Finally it’s sunset time.  We discuss something called a green flash, which I had never heard of.  When the sun sets on a clear day as it drops below the horizon sometimes, rarely, you can see a green flash of light that lasts a second or two.  We watch carefully for the green flash.

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Yes, we saw the green flash!

and it was magic!

Mission:Hawaiian Sunset – Check!


45 minute drive back to the condo’s and our first full day in Kauai – and a complete day on a single island is complete.

“Ziggy played guitar.”



Title: “Young American” – David Bowie.

While the rest of America watched Johnny Carson on late night television, my parents watched Dick Cavett.

It is likely they watched this clip in 1974 on the Dick Cavett show:


While the studio band doesn’t do the song justice, like Harvey Fierstein, his musicianship, professionalism and ensemble make the performance greater than the sum of its parts.

Some years later I would take Amity to see “The Rocky Horror Show” narrated by Dick Cavett, Live on Broadway.  Rocky Horror was a staple ‘midnight movie’ from my adolescence and college years.  Amity and I danced the “Time Warp” in the aisles at that Broadway performance.  Alas the broadway audience didn’t understand the authenticity of the Act.

David Bowie was from Brixton.  Yoshio called Brixton his home in London, another piece of synchronicity I didn’t know until I wrote this blog page and did this research.















Sometimes the light’s all shinin’ on me

10 Jan

napali trail second steps.JPGEthel – Sam Scolnick       Anna – Sam Sanders

Arthur                          Diane (‘the big “D”‘)

Dan                                         Laura


June 10th Epilogue

Arthur, My dad, bought a very fine Nikon in the ’60’s.  State of the art 35 mm SLR.  Multiple lenses.  He taught me how to use it.  We had a darkroom in the basement.  I went on to take photography and film (video) in college.  Dad/Arthur used to make photo-essays of his travels.  the slides and projector are with my sister.  In those days it was Kodachrome, Ectachrome, no internet or computers.  No blogs.  so the narrative he would do live and that is forever lost to childhood memories.

Arthur died in 1986 from malignant lung cancer at 46 years old.  He was a smoker.  He was a leader and man of action.   Apparently, Arthur joined this trip long before it started.  Izzy took some photography courses and her dad/Ray bought her a Nikon.  The photographs she produced make the photos I take look like the snapshots of a rank amateur.  Part is the camera, but the other part is raw talent, which obviously skipped a generation.

Part of the Hawaii experience is the scale and the contrasts.  there are times where it feels like what you’re eyes are seeing is not real, it’s a surrealistic, impressionistic painting before you.  If some of the pictures appear photoshopped, then Izzy has captured that feeling one gets while standing in these places of contrasts.

Here are  great pictures from izzy and amity from their trail hike. these pictures continue where the photo of the beginning of the trail in the previous post end:


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Ray at near certain “drowning depth”* on Ke’ e beach.



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The first steps look easy but uncomfortable.



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Wilderness is an understatement.


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200 feet in or so the trail gets more difficult.  This is the part that convinced me to bring along walking sticks.

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The Napali Coast


Doesn’t it look like Paul and Amity are photoshopped in?


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Looking down on Ke’e Beach

That little dot on the beach is Ray.



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Red Clay Along the Trail


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Mission:WHALE – check



Title:  “Truckin”, Grateful Dead

“Certain Drowning Depth” – ‘How to be a Jewish Mother’ – “you don’t have to be jewish or a mother to be a jewish mother”.


The man on the left (with the bulldog pipe) is Arthur (daddy), less than two years before his death.  The man on the Right is Sam Scolnick, his father.  To the left of Sam is Ed Flower, one of my fathers (and the families) closest friends.

Arthur arranged fishing trips once a year in Maine.  He was responsible for all those smiles.  This may have been one of the few times that Sam Scolnick smiled.  While Sam (grandpa) never complained, he was trapped in a miserable marriage for over 61 years.  The only thing I remember his saying was: “Ethel, Quit your bitching.”

Genetically, Arthur contributed big flat feet and green eyes to the family gene pool.  He had a steadfast moral compass.  I’m sure he lived to regret that he taught me to always question authority, that life and moral questions do not have black and white answers.  The questions and philosophical discussions are important; answers are always suspect.

Arthur taught me to develop film (now archaic) in his dental office darkroom.  Arthur went above and beyond.  He had a unique empathy for people and animals – he performed dentistry on police dogs and experimented with implants in humans decades before anyone even knew of the term.  Later he built a darkroom in the basement of the house in Dix Hills.  Izzy has his feet (sorry izzy – so do I) and his photography skills.  While Arthur was a Dentist, and founder of the Suffolk County Dental Society, he was an authority on history and wanted to be a history professor when he retired.  In reality, he was a fisherman (fly fishing – he tied his own flies).


I think it’s time we stop, children, what’s that sound, everybody look……

10 Jan

We’ve been on the move non-stop for over 5,000 Miles.  In two days we’ve been in three airports, flown two legs, rented two vehicles and stayed in 2 locations.  Today it’s time to stop moving, look around and get acclimated.

A 5 hour time difference is somewhat difficult.  We’re all up at 3am (which is 8am in NY).  In fact for most of us that’s sleeping late.  We’re in no hurry and kinda mosey over to making breakfast around 7am.  Ray has a conference call, as do I.

We watch the sunrise (mission:Hawaiian sunrise-check!), cook breakfast and just relax in the small front yard, taking in the water feature.

Sunrise in the yard


Kaua’i is the “garden island”, which has no relationship to the fact that my family resides in the “garden state”.   It is the northernmost island in the chain and the oldest.  It has a population of about 60,000 residents and significantly more chickens (and roosters).

Hawaii is a state full of invasive species.  During a hurricane in the past a chicken farm got ‘blown away’ and there are now feral fowl everywhere on Kaua’i.  They have no natural predators, the roosters are gorgeous and the chicklets are adorable.  Some roosters start crowing (is that the right word?) before the sun comes up.


Visitors’; They announced themselves!


Whether you’re going to ‘the beach’ on Long Island, or going ‘down the shore’ inb New Jersey, the concept is pretty much the same.  you gather all the things you need for a day of sand, sun and ocean, pack up the car and go spend the day.

How does one describe the beaches in Hawaii?  Unless you’re in the very limited Disney-esque areas with expensive resorts, you really can’t go swimming or boating.  This is impossible to explain or describe, after all, we’re going to the beach, right?   I found this out the first time I went there, when all the locals kept telling me, “don’t go in the water”.  The beaches are beautiful, The water clear and deep blue and both are difficult and treacherous.  The beautiful mild looking waves are at least 15 feet high, sometimes the white water from the deceivingly “small”  waves is 15 feet deep.  There are often volcanic reefs at the waters edge that require extra care and shoes to walk on.
For a people who are used to going to Fire Island, or the Jersey Shore this is pure culture shock.  I didn’t even try to explain it.  We decide to get a picnic lunch and to go to the north most beach at the end of the road.

A stop at Foodland for some Poke, Sandwiches and Korean chicken (for me) then  down some narrow twisty turns roads, a few one way bridges (each side has to wait for the other side to go, 5-7 cars is the local etiquette).  Some of the bridges are wood.   We stop at Hanalei Bay (the town) to check out some shops and buy some local macadamia nuts at The  Kauai Nut Roasters.  Hawaii is known for its extraordinary Macadamia Nuts and the Kauai Nut Roasters has all kinds of interesting flavors, and better yet, free samples!



We continue to make our way to the end of the road inside Ha’ena state park and find ke’e beach.

Ke’e beach. Notice all the fully clothed people in the shade watching the incredible surf!


The picnic gets set up, some toes are dipped in the water and I stand watch for whales.

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Setting up for the picnic, notice the waves in the background



Modest Waves can be fatal



Greetings from Ke’e Beach, Kaua’i Hawai’i





taking refuge in the shade


izzy at ke'e

Izzy up ‘the shore’




Just to the West of Ke’e beach is the Napali Coast.  This is where “South Pacific” and “Jurassic Park” were filmed.   it is beautiful, rugged and impassible, No roads.  the only way to see it is by boat, by helicopter or hiking in.  This is the view everytime we leave the condo.  It doesn’t get old.



The Trail Head for the hike is at Ke’e Beach.  There are a number of hikes that go from 1/4 mile (which I did with ‘M’) to overnight hikes which need permits.  Everything is either sharp volcanic rock, red clay, or red slimy mud (the napali coast has the most rainfall of anyplace on earth).

There are stories about parts of the hike where one has to crawl on ones belly across the red mud with a sheer cliff going up on one side, and a sheer cliff dropping off to the surf below on the right side.  When “M” and I went in just 1/4 mile it was sufficiently difficult and hazardous that I have no desire to go onwards.



Hazardous Cliffs, Flash Floods, Falling Rocks, nutcases in bare feet!



The trail head gives ample warning  and just past these signs is what appears to be a volcanic stone wall.  Having climbed it once, I had no desire to do it again, but Amity and Paul braved it for a ways.  This was the place that ensured I brought hiking sticks for my sister and me.  We were glad we had them.


You see a range of people exiting the trailhead from barefoot hippes that scamper up the rocks and out of sight in seconds to fully equipped pro-hikers with boots, walking sticks and big backpacks.  And yes, you see more than a few people covered head to toe in red clay mud.  I’m sure they had the time of their life.

We go back to the condo and relax.  Everyone disappeared and i’m sitting working on this blog.  I am concerned, everybody has been saying the whales are late this year, and I consider it unusual that I haven’t spotted one yet.  i’m concerned the wildlife part of the trip (which is one of the many missions) will be a bust.

my eye catches something off the front yard.  Channeling Ahab I jump up and yell “WHALES – GET OUT HERE” and run out the door.  Ray and Laura come running out too, and what do we see but a pod of about 200 whales frolicking less than a mile in front of us.  Whales everywhere!

We just stand there mouths agape with broad smiles.  The whales are checking in to their winter retreat, and we have the privilege of witnessing it.  Mission:Whales – Check!

I have no pictures of this as we all forgot to bring the cameras, but will be more, more of everything.

We go back to Hanalei Bay for dinner at Dolphin.  another excellent meal.  Our first day in Kaua’i done.




Title – Buffalo Springfield – “For what it’s worth”



Busted down on bourbon street

9 Jan

Jan 9th. Epilogue

I’m a “leave no stone uncovered” type of guy. I’m also a bit of a hard ass. One of the requirements for an excellent adventure is TSA Precheck. Back in April I incessantly nagged those in my party that did not have pre-check to get it or Global Entry (GOES). If you’re only going to fly once in your life, you can skip it. If you’re going to fly a second time, you’re loosing time in your life to the TSA, here’s what it gets you.
No Precheck

-shoes off

-belt off

-laptop out of your bag

-liquids/gels out of your bag

-full body scan machine

Long lines that move slowly behind groups of parents with small children in strollers wearing metalized Mickey Mouse hats and no ability to read signs, or interpret that the restrictions mean YOU!

TSA Precheck.

-shoes stay on

-belt stays on

-laptop stays in your bag

-liquids/gels stay in your bag

-simple metal detector rather than a full body scan

Long lines that move fast. Usually parents with children don’t have Precheck.
So having Precheck can easily cut an hour from your travel at a horrid airport like Newark, and tremendously reduce stress and increase dignity. Everyone on the itinerary must have Precheck, or no one does.
On this trip we have a total of 6 travel legs, so Precheck was required to be a member of our gang.

Apparently we are Costco gerls. The family brought all kinds of food to eat on the plane, from Costco, in Costco sized portions. It managed to all get eaten except for some oranges. Hawaii has an agricultural screening going in and out.
Well it turns out one of the missions of this trip was smuggling. Somehow we missed the agricultural screening, or the agricultural screening missed us entering HNL and “Maw”, aka “WOMAN” smuggled an undisclosed number of contraband Costco oranges into the state. A new sub-mission, to eliminate the evidence, now added to the overall complication of the mission.

We had a wonderful breakfast at the Hyatt Elite Lounge (which came free with the presidential suite and the soap). We had breakfast before dawn. They had many areas set up. They had an American breakfast area with bacon, eggs, all kinds of Hawaiian fruit. A coffee station. A Japanese station with miso soup and rice. Each nationality kept to its own area, of course we ate outside in the dark of first light away from the hustle and bustle of the internationalists – enjoying the warm breeze in the dark.

As we left the Hyatt for our next destinations, I stopped the Tahoe abruptly. “has everyone stolen all the soap?”, I asked, Channeling Al Bundy (from “Married, with Children” fame). Fortunately even without an advanced plan, we were all of the same mind. The Hyatt has really nice, exotic, tropical soaps in their hotel. I recommend it!


My share of the ‘take’. because that’s where the soap is!


One of my life rules is, if you’re going to break laws, only break one at a time….

We make our getaway from the Hyatt and Waikiki beach with our smuggled oranges and pilfered soap. It turns out that Izzy had a cold and managed to pocket an undisclosed number of honey containers from the excellent included breakfast. We were on our way.

Also, so far as running afoul of many laws, I did forget to mention one thing about GPS navigation here. Google maps has some problems with the Hawaiian dialect and local customs. It must be related to the Italian GPS’s as rather than taking us to the Pearl Harbor memorial, it took us to NEAR the Pearl Harbor military base, even though we entered ‘Arizona memorial’ into the unit. It got us close to the memorial then in a fit Italian stubbornness it took us and our contraband oranges and pilfered soap and honey, over ford island bridge to the military base at Pearl Harbor. I made the turn, realized what I had done, but it was too late. We were immediately stopped by a friendly sentry with his hand on a machine gun who called us a dirty name: “you tourists…….”

He took my license and turned us around, then gave me my license back while muttering something about Google, Siri, Apple maps, etc…… And we found the correct entrance just a few hundred feet away.

We fly from HNL to LIH (Lihue) Kaua’i in the late afternoon. We got to the airport early, Amity suggested we take an early flight standby, which we did. Everyone having the TSA pre-check made things really easy, and I followed the advice of the Dollar Rental Agent, I dropped everyone off at the terminal with their bags with the rent-a-car, then returned the car back by myself. I stopped to fill up at the nearest station which was a brand I never heard of. “Nex”. Turns out, after waiting on line, that only military personnel are allowed to buy gas there. Nex is the “navy exchange”. Once that was settled, the gang had already procured my boarding pass and with TSA Pre-Check we were all through with our dignity…… Wait where is Laura, and Ray?!
My sister got busted trying to smuggle a bottle of water (she’s incorrigible). Well, it wasn’t really a bottle of water, it was kind of an empty bottle with an inch of backwash in the bottom. But the TSA agent said she couldn’t tell how much. CONFISCATED. In the mean time Ray had walked through with a super slush size cup of ice. He asked the TSA agent if 1 ounce of water was verboten, what about his cup full of ice (Ray has always been a troublemaker – but he didn’t ask until after he was through screening – I always knew Ray was smart guy).

TSA regulation says ice is AOK! (It’s a solid, not a gel or a liquid). Had I known that, I could have frozen the jar of mustard they confiscated from me for being a gel! Your government tax dollars at work….

We land in Lihue 27 minutes later. The consensus is that the plane ride was quicker than taking the “A” train home from Work.

We rent an Armada, stop at foodland for breakfast staples then have dinner outside in princeville. Exhausted we go to our two condo’s in the cliffs. We will spend the next three days here.

We watch the sunrise as the front yard reveals itself


“Small yard with water feature”


The adventure has just begun.



Title: “Truckin'” – Grateful Dead

Your mission Dan, should you choose to accept it……

9 Jan

This trip is one of missions.  Multiple missions, and as with any Mission:Impossible, twists and turns in the plot, and missions within missions reveal themselves.

Mission 1 was to share my travel adventure with my family, and celebrate and welcome a new family member.   I have home issues.  Big ones.  And Manhattan and Long islands are my home.  But Hawaii’ is one of those unusual places in the world that also feels like Home to me.  And I’m sharing that home.

But I also like to do something different every time, so doing New things in Hawaii is a necessary part of the mission.

The flight experience was certainly an old experience that I wanted to share.  Now that I have the technology worked out, here are some ‘addendum’ pictures of my mission to Pearl Harbor.

A unexpected sub-mission was to repair the memory stick, that contained many of the irreplaceable photos from this trip. Obviously, Mission:repair has now been successfully executed.  Enjoy the fruits of that labor, behold!

Ironically, these new experiences involve old people.


sometimes you get really lucky.

This gentleman, Bernie, survived the attack on Pearl Harbor.  He’s 98 years old and comes 4 days a week to speak with the visitors.  His wife is 96 years old, they have been married 65 years.  He advises us his secret to a long and happy marriage is that his wife is always right.  Amity smiles at these words of wisdom.


On board the Mighty Missouri


This gentleman served on the Missouri, and told us his war stories.  This is a unique window in time where these people are still alive and can tell their personal stories.  Consider their generosity of spirit, as they volunteer their time and share their history and stories, lovingly,  in the broiling hot sun.  They are revered by the paid staff.  They are both fragile and delicate while being tough as nails.

On Board the Missouri
The many kitchens and sub-kitchens aboard the ship testify that the military travels on its stomach.

One of the many kitchens


Of course there is a specialty bakery for the doughnuts.


Laura meets the dental clinic


There may be 1800 mouths to feed, but each mouth has 32 teeth.



Amity mans the deck gun on the Bowfin while Izzy looks on


When YOU visit the bowfin, be sure to look at outside of the conning tower on the port side.  Look at the “kill board” and notice that not all of the kills were Japanese.  A French flag is conspicuously displayed there as well.  When you see it, contact me and tell me why she destroyed a French vessel!  (I know the answer, but you should too!)


East coast of O’Ahu

East Coast of O’Ahu

……… To be continued (theme song from Mission Impossible plays).



Title: opening lines from “Mission Impossible”

…Well the first thing you know ol’ Jed’s a millionaire…..

9 Jan

This trip has been a technology disaster for me.  I’m struggling to learn WordPress to write this blog on my iPad (which, considering my antipathy for Apple software is a struggle in and of itself).  I’ve also experienced a string of technology failures which I hope to include as I blog on…….
So in the interest of learning how to use more WordPress features, and because I have no pictures or better prose to offer for Saturday, January 9th I’m going to shamelessly plug a previous article written by “M” and his blog.  (Or shamelessly plagurize it).  I guess I’ll find out which when I get to his house in Ann Arbor next weekend and find out if I’m locked out in the winter cold.

When traveling to Hawaii, one usually flys into Honolulu on a major carrier, then “jumps” island to island on a local carrier.  Hawaain Airlines uses Boeing 717 regional jets, which is what we used for this trip, but there are other carriers like island air which uses smaller twin turbo prop planes, and Mokulele Airlines (honorable mention here) which uses single prop cessna’s.  In the future, if schedule permits, I will use Mokulele Airlines.  There is NOTHING like sitting right behind the pilots and watching the instruments and them fly the plane.  Very fun, very intimate.

So, if I ever did something “typical”, it’s when I give a tour of Hawaii, the first night is on o’ahu, and the first full day is at Pearl Harbor, the banzai pipeline, then back to the airport for the ‘jump’ to the island of choice.  This is the first day I did with butterblogger and this is the first day I did with my family.

Since I have a complete technology failure of pictures of the first day I will learn how to link to butterblogger previous article on this day 2 years ago, as his account is far better than any I could write.  But I will tell you the differences.

Pearl Harbor is now part of a larger historic site.  It has grown with additions to the original memorial.  One thing I do notice, and I should know as a boat owner, is the outside ships like the missouri and the bowfin age and require maintenance.  The miles of teak decking on the Missouri are showing weathering, as is the exterior of the Bowfin.

It takes money and effort to keep these relics in good repair.  And good money it costs to enter.  I hope those entry fees are used to maintain this heritage.

Also, I had wanted to see my sisters face when she saw the dental clinic on the Misouri.  Our father was a dentist and we both have early childhood (and later memories) and the experience of what it means to be the child of a dentist.  This was an unexpected bond I made with “M” from butterblogger, whilst visiting the Misouri in the past, as his father was also a dentist.

My sisters expression is stuck in an inaccessible memory card (which i hope to resolve upon my return to the mainland), but it wasn’t remarkable.  What was remarkable was once she got to thinking about it how she re-interpreted the statistics for me.

1800 sailors on board required 2 dentists working 14 hour days, 6 days a week.  Support staff consisting of lab technicians (for prosthetics) and hygienists, worked the other 10 hours a day, as there were only 2 chairs in tight quarters.  While the military may travel on its stomach, each stomach requires about 32 teeth to operate efficiently.

The dental clinic was not an afterthought, it was a primary neccessity.

Note to “M”, when she walked thought the bulkhead door and saw the “waiting room”, before she saw the operatory or knew it was the dental clinic, she instantly identified it and said “what’s this?  The waiting room?”.

I hope to have some of the technology issues repaired for the next blog.

So without further ado, this is what a morning in Pearl Harbor feels like:


Title: “the ballad of Jed Clampett” – Lester Flatts and Earl Scruggs.


So we loaded up the truck and we moved to Beverley…..

8 Jan

We rent a Tahoe and it’s off to do a little tour of the east coast of O’ahu, then the Hyatt Regency Waikiki for our first night in Hawaii.

We take off on interstate H1 and head towards the east coast.  O’ahu is the only Hawaiian island with interstates.  There are three.  I’m not sure how many people actually drive here from the mainland on the interestate but it seems like every one of them is heading east on H1 this Friday afternoon.


O’ahu has three interstates, the other islands, zero

After some extreme traffic the interstate turns into the two lane (one in each direction) Kameamea Highway and we’re driving through the rugged, twisty, hilly roads of the east coast.  We stop to see a few scenic overviews.  All I hear from the drivers seat is gasps, oohs and ahhas as we soak in the incredible views and blue blue blue waters smashing into the cliffs.

Then it’s off to the Hyatt Grand Regency Waikiki.  Waikiki is an international rodeo drive on steroids.  Tourists come here from all over the world, and it is dense with high end name retailers, glitzy shops and open air big name shops that spew their air conditioned air conspicuously out onto the sidewalks.  Japanese tourists come here, buy large luggage sets and fill them with American goods to take home.  It’s a scene.

The Hyatt Grand regency has the central location on the beach, and with our 6 person party, AARP discounts and frequent flyer matching status we manage to scrag the presidential suite, on the 40th floor, for less than the price of a couple of rooms on the ground floor facing away from the ocean.

This apartment is over the top.  Two bedrooms, an office, kitchen dining room, living room and my favorite, a separate entrance for “the help”.  The bathrooms not only have bidets, but they have electronic toilet seat bidets on the toilets.  So if you would like to use a bidet, you have a choice in each bathroom of which one!

It also has 6 balconies.  If we like, each of us can sit on our own balcony overlooking the main drag and Waikiki beach.  In fact we all sat on the same balcony and just moved from one to the next!


Amity and Izzy get ready for dinner in one of the spare bathrooms



The view east over Waikiki Beach



The Kitchen. The servants entrance is in the back


Dining room table. My bags (along with the pilfered soap) is being served


Your choice of bidets. Traditional or electronic


Electroinic Remote Control for bidet

The electronic bidet has a remote control, with presets for two users! (Just like the seats in a BMW!)
All in all the electronic bidet is superior because it also has a heated seat and a blow dryer capability!
This would be a perfect bundle with the crapper companion we saw in Florence on the Italian infomercial.

We had dinner at uncle Bo’s up the street, took a walk on the beach and so ended our day of travel to the other side of the planet!

Twas the night before…….

8 Jan

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‘Twas the night before…….

I feel compelled to start blogging (again). Actually I never felt like I did blog, as on many of my travels, I travelled with and he did all the blogging.

I was lazy.

well, tomorrow begins the trip of a lifetime. A year in the planning. Even though I’ve been there Many times before, this time it’s all about my traveling companions. My family is going with me so I can share with them many of my favorite places on earth, Hawaii.

My sister, My brother (in-law – hithertofore referred to as my brother – which is the defacto relationship), my two nieces and my soon to be nephew in law.

Amity is getting married to Paul in September. I offered to send them round trip anywhere United flies, or take the whole family to Hawaii, which I’ve been to many times and know pretty well. It didn’t take them but seconds to decide and We’re going on a trip of my lifetime. Oahu, Kaua’i and Hawaii (Big Island), 10 days on my favorite islands. Volcanos, monster waves, deserts, rainbows and rain forests.

and someone else is sure to join us, my long dead parents, who never made it to Hawaii. They knew how to travel and taught it to us. They will undoubtedly join us on this celebration of my first niece getting married. I’ve noticed lately that certain mannerisms, values and thought processes run through the generations, and i’m anxious to partake in them. I know countless times in the next 10 days we will be reminded of them and their presence will be known, through word, action and thought.

I made these plane reservations all the way back in april. 6 for us, but for me and Izzy, we ended up with seats not next to each other. The plane has been fully booked for months. Today, after check-in time, the seat next to me, 1b, opened up. out of hundreds of seats on the plane – all full, the one next to me opens up. I call up izzy and tell her to grab that seat. She gets it. As in many times in the past when synchronicity strikes I say:

“THANK YOU MOM”. Izzy tells me she it’s like when she finds a great parking space near her apartment uptown she says “I’ve never met you but thanks”. I didn’t know she does that before tonite. There will be many family revelations over the next 10 days and I welcome them.

I did a driving trip with my two nieces a decade ago touring eastern Europe, Germany, Austria, Czech republic, Poland and we had a spectacular time. This time my nieces parents, my sister and brother will join the celebration of the marriage and it will be my entire family.

so it’s time to pack and early in the morning we’ll start more than just “another”, but maybe the best ‘excellent adventure of my life’.

I’m just starting this blog up, It won’t be perfect. Please let me know if you can read it and if things look ok, and what can be better.